Alysha* knows what it’s like to be loved and cared for, to feel wanted, and to be part of a family. She does well in school, has lots of friends, and loves taking vacations with her parents. Not long ago, she faced a different set of circumstances.

Alysha spent most of her childhood in foster care, being moved between homes. She felt alone, as if no one would stand up for her, so she learned to look out for herself. This led to fights at school, suspensions, and more placement changes. She was finally referred to Stanford Sierra Youth & Families, where she met Noelle*, a Stanford Sierra social worker. Noelle developed a relationship with Alysha and connected her to behavioral health services. Noelle also looked for a family who could provide Alysha the unconditional love and support she needed. She found that family in Gabrielle and DeAndre Hampton*. 

The Hamptons knew, from their own childhoods, how trauma could affect a young person’s behavior. When Alysha was first placed with the Hamptons, she was standoffish. Experience told her she’d soon be moving again. What was the point? she thought. But the Hamptons were patient and consistent. They set reasonable, clear expectations and helped Alysha to meet them. Most importantly, they were there for Alysha, no matter what.

Alysha doesn’t fight anymore, but she has retained her fighting spirit. She’s joined her high school debate team, which travels 
the state to compete against other schools. She has a lot to look forward to these days. Next month, she changes her last name to Hampton, to “make it official,” as she says, when her adoption is finalized.

*Names have been changed to protect confidentiality.