Conner was 11 years old when he entered foster care. He struggled emotionally as a result of the past trauma he had experienced. He was placed in a specialized foster care home because he had higher needs. He began working with Whitney, a Stanford Sierra Youth & Families’ social worker, who did whatever it took to make sure that Conner received the support and stability he needed to thrive. 

While in care, there was a need for Conner to be placed in respite care for 2 weeks. Unfortunately, the pandemic had created a shortage of such families. But Whitney knew of a young man named Frank Martinez. Frank had just become a certified resource parent, and Whitney approached him about providing temporary care for Conner. 

When Frank met Conner, there was an instant connection. They were both San Francisco Giants fans and both loved to play video games. Frank wanted to help, but his work schedule prevented him from being able to take Conner to school across town and other appointments. When transportation posed a challenge, Whitney stepped in to support. Working with Frank, she devised a transportation schedule that worked for everyone—due in part to Whitney providing many of the rides herself.

Frank helped Conner with his homework, they watched Giants games together, and talked about EVERYTHING. The more time they spent together, the stronger their connection grew.

Last fall, Conner moved in with Frank. And last month, Frank and Conner became father and son, when their adoption was finalized. Conner needs less specialized care these days. He’s secure in the knowledge that he has a forever home and that Frank will always be there for him no matter what.

Every day, Stanford Sierra social workers like Whitney help find and support connections for youth like Conner, doing all they can to make sure every child knows what it’s like to be loved and accepted unconditionally, to be part of a family.

*Names have been changed to protect confidentiality.