Darren spent his early years in a home marked by substance abuse and domestic violence. When most children were learning how to count, say the alphabet, and play well with others, Darren was in survival mode.

When he was seven, Child Protective Services placed him in foster care for his own protection. Like many children who’ve endured trauma, Darren sometimes acted out. He could be aggressive, disobedient, and had trouble controlling his anger. His education had suffered too. He was behind his peers in school.

Darren’s first resource family was unable to support his needs, and he was moved again, compounding the trauma he’d already experienced. Fortunately, Darren’s second resource family, the Masons, were referred to Stanford Sierra Youth & Families. The Masons wanted to help Darren heal and supported efforts to reunite him with his biological mother if possible.

Stanford Sierra helped the Masons understand the effects of childhood trauma. With this greater understanding, the Masons were able to respond effectively and compassionately to Darren’s behavior.

The Mason’s biological son, who is three years older than Darren, participated and learned too.

At the same time, Darren worked one-to-one with a Stanford Sierra therapist to process what he’d been through and move toward healing. When reunification with his biological mom proved impossible, the Masons and Darren started the adoption process.

Darren continues to improve his grades and has developed a strong bond with his new older brother, who looks after him at school and has introduced him to a wide circle of friends. Challenges remain, but Darren and his family meet them with love and support.

Darren’s journey from trauma to triumph is a testament to the transformative power of support and community. With the compassionate guidance of his adoptive family and the resources provided by Stanford Sierra Youth & Families, Darren is not just surviving; he is thriving. He has found a loving home, improved his grades, and formed meaningful friendships—steps that are vital for any child’s development.

*Names have been changed to protect confidentiality.​